It was during my University years when I found out there was a scientific explanation to what I intuitively felt until then: different frequencies and vibrations affect everything.

I had already known back then about the String Theory, Quantum Physics and other technical subjects that seemed more like Philosophy than like “real science”. But finding out, during an official class, given by a state institution, that even buildings vibrate and every material object has it’s own vibration frequency, was mind-blowing! I mean, there it was, a Uni Professor, teaching in one of the most conservative environments, the fact that everything made out of matter has a vibration frequency! And you can calculate it! And you can find it out, and test it, and experiment with it! Just mind blowing! The feeling that I always had, that sound and vibrations around us influence us, was finally officially and scientifically proven! From there onwards, I had data to backup my theory, and I could prove and show how sounds influence us.

I remember going home and looking for all the online videos I could find at that time (around 15 years ago), about resonance and how it affects objects. If you want to see a nice video, how vibrations can collapse a concrete and steel structure, click HERE. Sounds produce vibrations, by pushing the tiny matter particles in the air around us, and smashing them into other objects or even into one another. I have seen documentaries and studies done on the impact of sounds on body organs and full organisms. Inappropriate sounds can physically harm the soft tissue, like the brain, and even cause death. I was once in a club, and I passed through between two big subwoofers, playing extra loud, and I felt like my brain froze, my ears started hurting, and I suddenly became nauseous. I realized that the loud sounds and beats coming from those huge speakers, were affecting my body and felt the need to get out of there as soon as possible. Strong sounds, causing powerful vibration, are no joke, no mystical event, they are as logical and scientific as Physics can be.

And still… we ignore them. We ignore the impact that our sounds have, on the people around us. Let’s not even mention of the impact that sounds have on water, and on everything that contains water! And yet, we dismiss it, and we ask people to not listen to “how” we say something, but to “what we say”. All the words that we issue, all the things that we say, impact everything around us. The idea is not to stop speaking, because that causes other issues, but to be aware of how we say what we say; to be aware of the energy behind the idea that we release in our environment, and about our intentions with our words. Do we want our words to nurture, grow, help, or do we want them to hurt, collapse and destroy?

As a Manifesting Generator myself, with the channel 34-20 defined on my personality side, what I say always comes from deep within, and I used to have lots of situations in which words would come out before I even knew I wanted to say something. I told myself many jokes like this, jokes that I hadn’t known before, but I also shocked myself and others with what came out of my mouth. Learning about my strategy and authority, and also learning what patience is and how I should use it, helped with having a better awareness on the message I wanted to transmit. I went from being a loose cannon, shooting in blind, to being able to modulate and play with tonalities, so that my message got better perceived. I learned that speaking from a state of distress and frustration will make my situation more miserable, and with more damage that needs repair, than if I said something from a calm mood. I learned that even if I tried to appear calm, even if I tried co “chill” and “go Zen”, until my core energy was not OK, my messages wouldn’t be received OK either. It was more a thing of how I said things, rather than what I said. But, of course, it also depends on the receiver. If the receiver has a distorted frequency, if their mood is already like murky waters, the chances for a good message to hit the right spot decrease a lot. If you throw a diamond in a swamp, the diamond will get lost and will not make much of a difference to the swamp. The thing that the diamond still stays there, and in time, when the swamp dries out, it can resurface, is another story. But in general, what I have noticed is that not only the vibration caused by the energy of the message is important, but also the frequency of the receiver. Just like with the movie above, and just like with buildings, sometimes the intensity of a disturbing vibration doesn’t matter, if the object receiving it is sturdy enough. And there, I had to work again with my 34-20 channel, because as much as it is there to empower others, I should also empower myself, so that my foundation is stable enough to put up with any disturbances coming from the outside.

The words we speak represent so much more than just words. They represent the very core of ourselves, even if we try to hide things, even when we say a lie, and even when we prepare a speech very well, thinking that this is the way to say something “good”. In my opinion, as long as a message doesn’t shatter anyone’s structure and doesn’t cause harmful impact on the other one, is a good message. The first thing that we should think about, would be the reason why we say those words: do we want to grow and nurture, or do we want to shatter and break into pieces the other one? Do we want to release the frustration and all that angry energy accumulated inside our bodies, or do we want to send our energy to the aid of the other one? There are ways of releasing accumulated energy, like yelling in a forest, on a river bank, on the beach, or even asking a friend to vent together. There is nothing wrong with releasing accumulated energy built up inside, and actually it is required to do so. If we don’t release it, the accumulated energy shatters and destroys things on the inside, in our minds and bodies. But finding out how to release this energy, how to play with it, and in the end freestyle your way with words, requires… practice 🙂

Next time when you open a conversation with someone, set up first your intention, look for that Why? behind your reasons. Then, try to tune into the mood of the other one, try to feel how they feel, and see what kind of tone you could better use. And last, remain true to the message, don’t hold back, but say it in such a way that you would be OK if those words would be told to you, if that vibration would somehow be reflected to you.

P.S. Have you ever noticed, or had someone in your live, whose voice feels like it touches and hugs your core and your soul? Did you ever find yourself relaxing and feeling less pain, by only hearing someone’s voice? Did you notice the different tones and tonalities that your own voice has when you are in different moods? Or maybe around different people?

Don’t forget that even if you can’t see something, it doesn’t mean that you can’t hear it. And in the end, words can hurt, can damage and can definitely destroy, for they are pure vibration.